Etiquette Lost

Some days it’s difficult to be hopeful for society’s future. It seems as though our culture continues to become more narcissistic, more self-centered and less concerned about the welfare of others.

Chivalry, etiquette and servitude are falling away. Values and virtues are not only ignored, they are actually attacked and vilified by a generation that doesn’t understand their importance.

Ponder these questions:

• Is it appropriate to speak at full volume on your cell phone when you’re in a crowded public space like on an airplane, an airport, or a local park?
• Is it appropriate to forward an email that was directed personally and specifically to you?
• Is it respectful to mow your lawn at 8 o’clock on a Sunday morning?
• Should you tether your dog to a tree and let it bark for endless hours without concern for your neighbors?

Etiquette is generally not a rigid constitution of clear dos and don’ts. A degree of awareness and discernment is needed, and we all make mistakes.

The main concern, however, seems to be that few people are even aware of etiquette. Whether or not people are ignorant or just don’t care is open for debate.

Few people seem to have a thoughtful awareness of others. Many people don’t evaluate questions like: Is this appropriate? How will this action affect others?

Without respect, understanding and thoughtful awareness of our fellow humans, where is this great nation headed?

Related posts:

1. A Brief Guide to Email Etiquette